we & 39; re all familiar with the label; If you confirm, confident, intelligent, independent woman, you& 39;re often called his dog. If you have high-level job or are staying in the house - my mother, the term is still happening on the assumption that women possess these qualities no matter how nice " & quot; what we are. The man who possesses the same qualities do not seem to have any negative connotations applied to them, but instead of respect and admiration - even when it does not act like bumps mercy! In the workplace, in relationships, if women are to show a lot of femininity, we can be seen as weak, but, if we are strong and we are confident that they " control of the Bitches. & Quot; feel we should be allowed to express About femininity at the same time showing confidence in ourselves and our abilities without signs of an attack before.
as unmarried women, mothers and all of us in managing our lives to manage independently of men. (See my profile in http://www.singlemommindy.blogspot.com) add confidence and career success, and positive, outgoing personality to become a danger to any person who is the least bit insecure about themselves - men and women alike. Confidence is the intimidation of those who are not theirs, and feel they can be achieved by " take you down. & Quot; if there believe they can not be compared, (being insecure, they are compared) will seek ways to you Down to feel better about themselves. This is one of the main reasons why we eventually being named a Bitch.
being confident of our independence and empower more women, and enable us to succeed in many areas of our lives. For many, and we rise higher, as well as these people would like to see us fall. Somehow, being called his dog undermine our success and shake us so that we care! We do not want to be cast negatively, but instead of recognition and appreciation to all of the qualities and abilities. Sometimes we feel we need to do damage control when we& 39;ve put his dog was written, so we become too sweet, to try to reverse it. If you want to know what can relate to this, then you know also that never works.
how Is all this play in the relationship? Being an independent woman and is confident of myself, I can tell you what I learned. I& 39;ve known, dated, and was in relationships with men who say they are very attracted to a woman " comfortable in her skin & quot;, and I think it is. But when these men are in a relationship with a woman of this kind is not strong enough and confident of themselves, and begin to try us for knocking down because they are happy intimidated by us. They feel that it will be inadequate and blame us for them to feel this way, the relationship fail. Whatever happen, and assured him of you - if it knows that it is not measuring up to his standards, regardless of what you think and say otherwise, you& 39;re scapegoat for everything that is wrong in the world!
this independent woman / puzzle Bitch is not specific to the place of work or relationships, and it everywhere, what can we do about it? We can change it, or as we learn to live with it? We can strike the regime " & quot; by being feminine and strong, capable and confident, independent and successful? If we had confidence and independent, and we should build it or try to conceal it? Tell me what you think by sending a comment on my blog at http://www.singlemommindy.blogspot.com and I look forward to hearing your thoughts.
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